"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance. The thread may stretch or tangle, but will never break."
--An ancient Chinese belief




Thursday, April 28, 2011

Easter morning


More pictures to come of Lulu's party and Easter from Brad's camera..




Monday, April 25, 2011

Lulu's 6th Birthday Party






























Spring Fling at school









Spring Fling, Lulu's 6th Birthday, and Lulu's First Easter!

Lulu had a busy weekend starting with her Spring Fling at school on Friday. Not only was it a day of fun hunting for eggs and decorating terracotta pots to plant flowers, it was also a very emotional day for us. It was Lulu's teacher's last day teaching at her school. Lulu loves Miss Anjella so much, as we do, and it won't be the same there without her. She has been an amazing teacher and has touched Lulu's little life tremendously. We give her so much credit for Lulu's growth and maturity over the past year. She has been patient, understanding, firm but comforting with her since she took over as lead teacher when Lulu's first teacher left. Anjella even put together a photo album of Lulu's first year at Childrens Lighthouse Learning Center for us. I am just so touched by her kindness and love for Lulu. We will surely stay in touch with Miss Anjella.

Lulu's birthday party was held at Big Air, and inflatable fun center. We had originally planned to have just a small birthday with only the family since we didn't want her to be overwhelmed. I then changed my mind since I really wanted her to have fun with other kids. Lulu did get overwhelmed at the end, but there was a lot of jumping and running around (a total of 80 minutes in 2 different rooms), so it was understandable to me when she started having a mini meltdown. I was shocked though that she didn't take a nap afterward and actually stayed awake until 10pm! Part of it was probably her excitement that the Easter bunny was coming since we dyed eggs after her birthday party. Lulu was laughing a lot on Easter morning finding eggs in some funny places.

Lulu is not much of a candy eater, but did eat a lot of candy on Easter day. Fortunately, we had her second teeth cleaning this morning and she had no cavities.

Saturday, April 9, 2011

11 Months since Forever Family Day!!!

Another month home with Lulu! The days are just flying by and our one year anniversary is just around the corner. We have our 12-month post-adoption meeting with our social worker on Monday. I'm sure she will be amazed at how much Lulu has changed since our 6 month meeting.

We had our first trip to Disney with Lulu last month. I tried preparing her before our trip by showing her pictures and videos of Disney. It seems like when I do this, instead of her feeling more comfortable about whatever it is, it has the opposite effect. She was excited about going, however her behavior leading up to Disney was terrible. While at Disney, it was an extreme mixed bag of joy and frustration. I know Disney can be overstimulating, but her behavior was also bad at school the week before, at home, and at the hotel. I know it must have been from fear and stress about not being at home. She worried about the dogs and seemed to have a hard time of just relaxing and having fun for more than 10 minutes. Since we've been home she's been doing great the past few weeks. Our next trip away will be in August for Brad's 50th birthday. We're going to St. Martin for a week. This time, I am not going to over prepare her for it. I am worried though about her first time on a plane since coming home from China, and the length of time we'll be gone.

Poor Lulu has been dealing with skin issues for about 6 months now. We switched dermatologists, and her skin is doing better. We also on our own eliminated milk, and the new dermatologist had us stop an antibiotic that was prescribed from the first dermatologist. One of the rare side effects of the antibiotic was "rash", and she started getting a rash all over her cheeks. We're not sure though if the improvement is with the new skin routine, or from eliminating milk and the antibiotic. I'm just happy that we're finally starting to see a little bit of improvement. I have an appointment with an allergist, but am now rethinking about going. I would hate for her to be tested and have an extreme reaction to an allergen. On the other hand, I would like to know if there is anything she might be allergic to that I can eliminate.

Lulu is taking swimming lessons again at UNF. She had about a 2 month gap from the last series of classes. She is doing better but has a long way to go. She is not very fearful, but due to her right sided weakness, it is going to take longer than normal. She has to be reminded to use her right side. Although her right arm is steadily getting stronger, it is still a lot weaker than her left. Lulu's right leg has also gotten a lot stronger. She wasn't able to hop on her right leg, or skip, and she can do both now. I know that her dance classes, swimming, stuff we're doing at home, and just running around and playing is helping so much with her development.

Pump It Up, Swimming lessons, Mommy's Bday, Mommy's Little Helper